I had waited until this time of year (Valentine’s Day) to post my first blog entry concerning the Song of Songs. Without a doubt the Song is the epitome of what Valentine’s Day has come to represent: love, passion and desire. Except Valentine’s Day is really for “love rookies,” those who need to be reminded that love, passion and desire should be celebrated. The Song is a celebration of love between a husband and wife that is portrayed as one long continual erotic feast—not one day!
While I would love (pun intended), to share some insights into one of my favorite portions of God’s word, I need to move in a slightly different direction. My heart was touched by an article I read this am. It tells of a couple’s relationship that may seem to be an antithesis of the Song (for medical reasons); yet, it exposes the necessary foundational attitudes and actions that make the Song a reality in marriage. Read the NY Times article: “Love in the Time of Prostate Cancer” by Dana Jennings.
As I think of relationships such as the Jennings and the Song, I wonder if a poor attitude towards a spouse’s health is one of those “foxes” that threaten a marriage relationship (Song 2:15).
Valentine Day cannot be enjoyed without a commitment (in both words and actions) to a mutually exclusive love (in good times and bad).